tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post9021734841569527718..comments2023-09-18T04:49:38.598-07:00Comments on Through My Mothers Eyes ...... Vayden's Story: 6 Months with ChangeStephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01117774478751383770noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-28141038934120349132009-12-07T17:45:08.711-08:002009-12-07T17:45:08.711-08:00These words are so true. Especially that last para...These words are so true. Especially that last paragraph. Great post!~J's Mommy~https://www.blogger.com/profile/12315782116807878451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-71542870680576615442009-11-30T15:00:27.213-08:002009-11-30T15:00:27.213-08:00My 6 months of missing Olivia just passed as well,...My 6 months of missing Olivia just passed as well, as she was born 05.14.09. I just posted something similar too, about grief and joy, that just because I'm smiling doesn't mean that I'm not still grieving. I wait with you for the day when my family will be together again.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09394453146621467115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-74986002689063654902009-11-29T20:20:53.109-08:002009-11-29T20:20:53.109-08:00Stephanie, you are right about that. You have a l...Stephanie, you are right about that. You have a lot of people checking up on you but you are right about that. Because those not in our shoes can easily forget what is below the surface, the hole in your heart, the wounds that are not scars, but open, raw wounds. I hurt for you, too, Stephanie. Hang in there. I am right there beside you, missing Vashon, Chase, and all the babies we read about....<br />xxxoooChristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04211125719068555386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-26904529345119819182009-11-25T09:04:01.175-08:002009-11-25T09:04:01.175-08:00Belated Happy 6 Months in Heaven to your sweet Vay...Belated Happy 6 Months in Heaven to your sweet Vayden. You are an amazing, beautiful Momma. Your in my heart.crystal theresahttp://fragments.louielovescrystal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-61182110245190593592009-11-24T14:45:18.213-08:002009-11-24T14:45:18.213-08:00Happy 6 months in Heaven to Vayden. (sorry I'm...Happy 6 months in Heaven to Vayden. (sorry I'm a day late here) Life definitely changes. How can it not? You're never the same person you once were. Some of the old you can come back and blend with the new you but the old you will never completely come back. An innocence is shattered that can't be recovered.<br /><br />Heaven is definitely sweeter with our babies there. I keep my eyes on it because that is where I want to be, with Carleigh and Jesus.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-70085987109977581932009-11-24T12:05:58.504-08:002009-11-24T12:05:58.504-08:00You are doing AMAZING things with such a hard situ...You are doing AMAZING things with such a hard situation. You have become a much better person I am sure as have I. I just wish it could have been with our babies in our arms. I know your Vayden is so very proud of his mommy! May he continue to bring you lots of love from the heavens.<br /><br />NicolleChristmas with Kaseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04046209441729981789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-71736918536637601252009-11-24T10:35:01.967-08:002009-11-24T10:35:01.967-08:00We do change in a instant and become somebody comp...We do change in a instant and become somebody completely new. As much as I hate the "new me" at times, I look back at some of the obstacles I've overcome these last (almost) six months and think, "Gosh, the "old me" would have NEVER been able to deal with that"! You do have to change to get stronger, I just wish the change didn't involve surrendering one of our babies :) <br /><br />People have a hard time gripping the idea that we can be thankful our babies are in heaven, but be completely heartbroken that they aren't here... ALL AT THE SAME TIME! You just can't feel one without the other. I'm glad I have people like you who completely get that :)Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08757012023474934032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-55123701614334493992009-11-23T21:42:50.766-08:002009-11-23T21:42:50.766-08:00Stephanie,
We are walking the same path very clos...Stephanie,<br /><br />We are walking the same path very closely. Janessa 5.14.09 Vayden 5.23.09. 6 months really hits home. Half a year. Feels so long but also like yesterday. You are a beautiful person & your are grieving healthy. What you have created for angel parents is amazing.Maloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15474835486480023516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-71095360500685791672009-11-23T12:50:34.106-08:002009-11-23T12:50:34.106-08:00One of the most profound things I noticed right aw...One of the most profound things I noticed right away after we lost our twin daughters and later our son was that we had changed, drastically and in an instant. We were no longer the same two care free young kids with everything ahead of them. We were different...forever changed. In many ways, God has changed us for good, making beauty from our ashes...and I am so grateful for the gifts He has blessed us with through those changes...but we do still miss our sweet babies, and always will. Remembering sweet Vayden with you today...and continuing to pray that He will comfort and carry you with His grace...<br /><br />Much Love,<br />KellyKelly @ Sufficient Grace Ministrieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182310611088290551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-8281586705991032292009-11-23T10:33:57.335-08:002009-11-23T10:33:57.335-08:00So beautiful and so true. I had to remind my husb...So beautiful and so true. I had to remind my husband this weekend that just because I go through the everyday motions doesn't mean that I'm "over it" and some people have said to me. I go about the motions of everyday because I HAVE to. Just because I'm working or playing with Kayla doesn't mean that I'm not hurting ~ I'm sure the same goes for you. You've done so much and have such a powerful outlook on life now, and Vayden is for sure so proud of his Mommy! Keep up all that you do - so many look upon you with such admiration. I think of you often~Vayden and Madison are so close in heavanly age. You are always in my prayers!Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11867763300717960969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-55726477431560648862009-11-23T10:20:12.504-08:002009-11-23T10:20:12.504-08:00Six months, wow, it always seems like an eternity ...Six months, wow, it always seems like an eternity but also like yesterday. I too through the loss of my son made myself a promise that I had to make to Heaven in any way shape or form just to be with Bryston once again. I just love your perpective on things. Its uplifting. *HUGS*The Blue Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08196234778836756227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-6660397830573278962009-11-23T07:59:04.438-08:002009-11-23T07:59:04.438-08:00I have been following your blog since right before...I have been following your blog since right before you delivered your precious son. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Even though I haven't commented, your family has been in my prayers.MY LIFE WITH BOYS!https://www.blogger.com/profile/10374239352228395926noreply@blogger.com