tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post5802748462112678457..comments2023-09-18T04:49:38.598-07:00Comments on Through My Mothers Eyes ...... Vayden's Story: If Vayden were hereStephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01117774478751383770noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-49201048707500176462010-05-15T15:31:16.074-07:002010-05-15T15:31:16.074-07:00And another wave comes.... (((hug)))
It's har...And another wave comes.... (((hug)))<br /><br />It's hard not to see setbacks as failures with our children. Kyndra isn't even interested at all in PLing and I wonder if I'm doing it wrong even though I know that she just might not be ready.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-23718527031931075012010-05-09T06:33:40.274-07:002010-05-09T06:33:40.274-07:00Hey Steph. Congrats on the new baby!!! I just read...Hey Steph. Congrats on the new baby!!! I just read. I am so happy and excited for you. Ali did the whole potty trained and then regressed back to accidents. I am a full time working mom. So you are dead on. It's a toddler thing. Some do it some don't. I wanted him to be night trained so badly but finally gave up b/c I was sick of him peeing on me a night :).beckabinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323866320590686337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-39213587433409701142010-05-07T14:17:58.640-07:002010-05-07T14:17:58.640-07:00I know how that feels.... not in the same way of c...I know how that feels.... not in the same way of course but I'll think and say things in the most craziest moments....But it's just the enemy trying to bring you down...I've known you for a matter of a few weeks and I think you are an amazing person, mother, mentor and leader. You have inspired me to want more and learn more from my experiences. Know that the gift you give people in helping them recover from such heartache is the greatest gift and GoD holds a special place in his heart for you! God Bless you!Addianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14851135124334083211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-87451898373491537372010-05-07T14:13:49.517-07:002010-05-07T14:13:49.517-07:00Oh Stephanie you are in NO way, shape, form, a fai...Oh Stephanie you are in NO way, shape, form, a failure. Vayden's angelversary is fast approaching, and you are pregnant with a beautiful gift, and the feelings are fiercely bubbling over. It's your heart aching, and that's OK. There are times that someone might just look at me in a way that upsets me, and I fall to pieces. Sometimes you never know what will sneak up on you. I know failure would NEVER, EVER be a way to describe you. You are a loving, giving, and oh so special person to me, and to so, so many others that you have touched. I know that Vayden is looking at you and so proud of his mommy, feeling lucky to have you love him so much.<br /> ((((((Huge Hugs)))))<br />PaulaTears in Novemberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06324366434018703450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-73994090882178900042010-05-07T12:57:02.285-07:002010-05-07T12:57:02.285-07:00((big hugs)) Stephanie you are not a failure. I kn...((big hugs)) Stephanie you are not a failure. I know it's so hard not to feel that way because you are his mommy and want to do a great job. I can imagine how hard it must be to take care of Vashon, your rainbow baby, while missing Vayden. I am sending love and good thoughts your way.crystal theresahttp://fragments.louielovescrystal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-24902512256714751622010-05-07T12:49:28.694-07:002010-05-07T12:49:28.694-07:00Grief is a funny thing. It sometimes shows up in t...Grief is a funny thing. It sometimes shows up in the most weirdest places. Like...when a kid poops! I know our sitautions are differnt, but after I placed Camden, I would get really upset about something, example, someone was really rude to me or something. Next thing I know, I'm crying because I miss Camden, and not because the person was rude to me, or whatever had initially upset me. But just know...i KNOW that you are not a failure. You are far from that. You are an angel also because you brought an angel into this world out of pure selflessness. =)Sean and Sierrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01803196235571629392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1813160611061244361.post-74378437846615499912010-05-07T08:45:20.009-07:002010-05-07T08:45:20.009-07:00It's so hard, especially this month. What, wi...It's so hard, especially this month. What, with Mother's Day and Vayden's day coming up...it's hard. And I feel like that everyday. I found myself just this morning having to go downstairs and kicking a door because Kayla insisted she had to go poopy but it wouldn't come out and she can't go at daycare. (I secretly think she knows that something is not right with Mommy and lately wants to be by my side every minute). It wasn't the fact that I was going to be late for work or irritated by her behavior lately. I know that is was something more. This month is going to be really hard, but cry, scream, kick, do whatever and get the frustration and sadness out. And enjoy Vashon - and your pregnancy. Congratulations and I wish you nothing but the best, because Lord knows you deserve it.Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11867763300717960969noreply@blogger.com